Sunday, April 30, 2006
Sentiments
Guess i'm getting old nowdays...once there was a time when I used to think 6 hrs of sleep is a real treasure...getting 4 hrs of sleep was a norm just last semester..I even recall the numerous times I have stayed up the whole nite...may it be at home, at fren's plce or at Macdonald's and still manage to look presentable the next day...de facto i used to feel fresher on the days i stayed up e whole nite..
and today....i need 8 hrs of sleep, 5 glasses of water, and 1 hr of reading. Well let's not say old, let's say healthier...:)talking about the old thing, on that note just e other day my colleague and i were talking about the rising number of failed marriages...
let's forget the tax rebates, maternity leaves and all e legal things associated with it. Let's talk SENTIMENTS.
These people who go thru divorce must either b very strong or very distraught. Strong bcos it's difficult to forget so many things that the package named 'marriage' brings..one has got to be strong to go thru such a big ordeal...Living in this world as little as I have lived, i feel that emotional pain can kill a person. I have had my fair share of sorrows and grief. Though, I get up and walk thru it stronger than before, when I think back to my recovery period, i shudder in horror....I'd just die if i were to live my life in painful memories of an obnoxious person.
I tremble with memories everytime I come across painful memories..E burried sentiments are then awakened. So difficult it is to 4get small things like the 1st movie u watched, the first time u met, some lingos which onli the 2 of u noe...but difficult as it is, it has to b overcome...cos e meaning of life is derived 4m the word living and living means..memories,grief,happiness..and the ultimate..death.....All ard me ppl of our gen get into relationships, fall out..some of them u consider to b ideal couples and then they get cheated too...making u sit down and wonder wat is the perfect relationship..the rite gf, the rite bf....
Yea i noe it sounds like preaching..but guys really spare a thout 4 ur spouse/gf/bf/husband/wife b4 taking any drastic measures cos not all the time r ur sentiments are mirrored by others and vice versa...
Lastly, nvr fall in love with these ppl:
1) People who don't like you (wat's e point if they dun even like u)
2) People leadin the wrong life (drug addicts, terrorists, etc)
3) People who love u but don't noe how to show it (face it, u can't ever noe wat the other person is thinking until he/she says it out...try speaking ur heart out..u'll be surprised how alike the other person is to u)
I Shone at
1:11 AM
